48. How to Handle ‘Friends’ Competing in your Marriage

What do you do when your spouse seems to be pursuing a relationship outside of your marriage? This is a hard, painful and frustrating situation for many, but in this episode, you’ll learn some new ways to think that can help your relationship to thrive.

In this episode, Lindy talks about: 

• The different ways people think about friends outside of marriage
• How to work towards getting rid of fears regarding betrayal and infidelity.
• How to get on the same page with your spouse regarding new “friends”
• What not to do that makes an affair more likely

Key takeaways:

• Make sure the message you are sending your spouse is the message that helps your situation rather than makes it worse.
• Making your spouse feel bad about their choices is not the best way to improve your relationship
• Learning to understand your spouse’s different way of thinking is key to changing the dynamics of your marriage
• Becoming more conscious of the effects of your own behaviors, will help initiate changes in your relationships much better than focusing on changes you want your spouse to make.

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