26. YOU make a difference!

We all make a difference, but not always in the ways we’re meaning to. Sometimes when we try to make a difference, people get offended and misperceive our good intentions. Learn how to make sure the difference you’re making is positive and not hurting!

In this episode, Lindy talks about:

Why people get offended when no offense is intended
Why something thing that would “help” us, can actually be “hurting” someone else
Why people sometimes do things intentionally to hurt others, but not for reasons you might think
Why Lindy can believe that even when people are being mean, they can also be doing their best.
The analogy of the tree and the computer system.

Key Takeaways:

Though it’s easy to be offended when our efforts to make a difference aren’t perceived the way we want them to, learning how to make a difference in ways that are perceived correctly will improve our relationships in much more effective ways.
Seeing an opposite perspective can help us make sure our efforts help, instead of hurt.
BE and DO thinkers are inspired and motivated by completely opposite efforts. What inspires one side can actually hurt the other
Learning how people are inspired and motivated can help you not misperceive the efforts of others, and help you not be offended when no offense was intended.

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